My Only Little Sister Finally Got Married

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10th May 2018 marked the very day my one and only little sister finally married the love of her life. She was only 24. As the only big sister of hers, there's no words left to say, am reaaally happy for her that she finally found her true love. Alhamdulillah. Congratulations my dear sis! Everything happened very smoothly during the process from the beginning when she and her husband got to know each other until the moment they were solemnised. As I could remember, it took only less than five months of preparations towards the ijab and qabul process. Alhmadulillah that Allah eased everything for them.

It is indeed true when the person is really meant for you, no matter who, no matter how, sooner or later you will finally be together. When being asked about how do I feel when my younger sibling got married earlier than me, personally I'd say that I don't have problem at all with that. It's not like marriage requires a turn-taking according to sibling's age or whatsoever. I believe that when the time comes, you will definitely be there. Doesn't matter when. That, I leave it to The Almighty as He knows best.

Mom and Dad on the night of my lil sis' nikah day

Now the responsibility of taking care of you had been shifted from Dad to your Husband. Welcome to our little family, my dear brother-in-law! I just hope for nothing but for you to take a very good care of my only lil sis. Please be the best husband to her! Lol. I am proud of my sis because she's such a tough young lady, juggling between pursuing her full-time Masters degree in the IIUM, being a part-time cook and at the same time willing to carry the role as a wife now. May Allah always protect you and your marriage, and always bless both of you. May Allah showers you with abundance of rizq too. Aameeen Ya Rabb!
Us with our cousins, the single ladies in the family Xx


As for me? Life goes on. I am still searching for my true love, my soulmate and my everything. Maybe because the older I get now, I have a different perspective about marriage, different priority and all. Whatever it might be, I just accept what Allah is  planning for my life journey. I just pray that He would ease everything for me. 



To my dear ladies and gentlemen who are on the same page with me, don't rush into marriage just because others around you are married, having their own family and all. Marriage is not a competition. It is a huge change of responsibility which takes real preparation both physically and mentally towards that. This I remind myself too. 



Thanks for reading y'alls! Xx

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